Im 39 and a very laid back person, I go with the flow, totally drama free, I like to surround myself with positive, funny people. I absolutely love to be around funny people that can make me laugh. There is nothing better than to be happy and laugh!! Iam always myself and I never try to be someone or something that Iam not, im all about reality. I do not like fakes or people that look down on others for who or what they do not have. We are all humans and deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. I love water sports, anything outside, sports in general, funny movies, absolutely love to dance and hang with my friends and unwind.

Honestly, Im not sure what Iam looking for, I guess ill find it when i get there but I will say chemistry is huge with me. As soon as i meet someone and look into their eyes I can immediately feel it,kind of weird but thats how iam..Iam picky as well..and hey...shouldnt we be...I already settled once in my life for 18yrs and i dont want to ever do that again. Not being shallow, but i really like a handsome face, brown eyes really do it for me but i wont discriminate ..lol..cute smile, and I tend to like big guys..meaning...big chest, and i love me some big guns...lol...what can i say?....so pretty much a guy that works out and takes care of his appearance because I take pride in my appearance as well, I run 3-4 times a week. I like people that are laid back as well, not overly loud when we go out...but funny and honest, caring, respectful of women, someone that takes the time to listen, thoughtful, and a hopeless romantic. Really, sometimes I feel like if a man out there like that even exists...lol..I just want to add something...if your gay or bi and looking for some kind of challenge.....step aside...

I would definately meet in a public place, dinner, drinks and if they feel up to it...Id love to go dancing. But talking and getting to know that person is the most important thing but you know if the date is going well or not, you either hit it off or its just not there...we have all been there and done that...going to a movie for a first date is fine as well...honestly, im up for anything, I like to be surprised, having the guy totally plan the date out for us...thats awesome...kind of a turn on actually, that he would take the time and effort just to do that for me...