I am truly lucky! Great family and loyal friends and a job I love! What else can one ask for? I guess a great guy in my life with whom I can share joy, laughter, quiet moments and sometimes sad moments of my life. I am young in mind and spirit and am looking for the same. You maybe 30, but if your mentality is of a sixty year old, please keep looking.I like positive, caring people in my life; it is too short to be surrounded by anything else.Traveling, jazz clubs, dancing, fine dining, antiquing or just cuddling up with a glass of wine by a roaring fire works for me. If you feel comfortable in jeans as well as a tux, I would love to get to know you. If there is chemistry of body and mind, it could grow into a relationship, if there is chemistry of the minds, into a friendship. Either way it is a win/win situation.

First meet over coffee or a drink, but not in a pub or tacky bar. Somewhere more classy.
I don't know if that is considered a date. Just checking each other out and getting to know the other person. If the conversation flows and there is some chemistry a real date can be set. A nice dinner, walk in the park, live jazz.... The possibilities are limitless with the right person.