Okay...This site makes you choose the type of relationship you are looking for. I chose Long-Term but what I'm really thinking ...don't you have to go through all of the other fun stuff to get where you want to be.

I'm a man who knows what I want! Unfortunately my work schedule doesn't allow me to have what I want.( Hence the profile) I am confident,secure both mentally and financially and far from set in my ways as many might assume. I love working out,going for a good run or just plain hanging out doing nothing. (If you could find the time to do that nowadays...its a great accomplishment!) I love to cook, breakfast, lunch, dinner or just snacks. (You'd be surprised of what you could do to a sandwich if you put your mind into it) I love the thought of spontaneity, but I guess I could make plans. I say that simply because most of our life styles or at least mine doesn't allow me to make plans as much as I would like too. (crazy days off)

I still believe in CHIVALRY and treating people the way I want to be TREATED. By the way I tend to laugh at myself so a sense a humor is definitely a plus.

My interest include my SON, music, art, reading, cooking and a good cup of coffee either at BORDERS or a cafe in some unexplored neighborhood. Outdoor Festivals in the summer with all kinds of music from Jazz to Country. I love to workout to stay in shape and by no means am I a fitness guru.

I like going to the movies, museums, galleries as well as staying home ordering a pizza with some jalapeno popppers and popping in a DVD while chillin' on the couch.(Rather Cook)

Looking for someone who is comfortable with themselves and loves trying new things. Someone who likes to workout both indoors and out.(-not necessary) Someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans but also likes to dress up. (Sucker for a Sun Dress HOT HOT!) I believe things take time to evolve...so it doesn't matter what your looking for whether its Long-term, hanging out or friends.The only MUST HAVE I require is a sense of humor, after all, who are we if we can't laugh at ourselves. I realize we all get nervous and there is a certain kind of apprehension before we meet...but what are we all here for?

My outlook on first dates is usually a laid back kinda of thing...sort of like two people just hanging out. I'm thinking a nice lunch or dinner and afterwards hit a neighborhood cafe for drink and good conversation, or we just go all out either way as long as we are comfortable. Open to suggestions.