Pure joy is in the littlest of things. Bling is just bling, substance is everything. My life is full of substance, friends, family, children - love is substance.

I'm interested in taking the time to get to know someone of substance.

My interests are vast, I like getting all flyed up for an evening out, but I don't mind getting grimmy sometimes like going fishing or hiking. I'm a girly girl most of the time but I do wear my "hat to the back" when the mood strikes me. I'm completely, happy and myself around music. Old school hip hop, R&B, Reggae, Salsa,Samba, anything I can move to. With that said there are also times when the mood calls for Ella, Miles, Monk, and Charlie Parker.

I also like trying different types of food. Please do not contact me if you think Chinese Food is Fried Rice and Broccoli Beef or if you think French food is French Fries unless you're willing to try something new.

There are things I'd love to try, I'll do just about anything once, like Sky or, scuba diving. I need someone who's not afraid to new share adventures with me.

Religion? I am Christian... That doesn't mean I go to church every Sunday, or that I go to Bible Study Tuesday and Thursday. It means that I try to live my life by accepting and loving people for who they are. It means that I respect other peoples beliefs and lifestyles and don't feel it's for me to judge. I have met one too many Wolves in Shepherd's clothing. Shepherd's should guide and protect the flock. I mean no disrespect to any "men of god" but I have no interest in being a preacher's wife. I am however, interested in meeting a strong, spirutual man who knows God is Love...substance.

A good first date would be meeting at a park, or for a coffee. Something simple, neutral and casual to break the ice and see if future outings are in the works.