I am looking for a good friend to share my spare time with. Please, all you guys in your 20's and early 30's, don't bother, even if you tell me you prefer older women, forget it, I don't want you (or me for that matter) to waste precious time.

I have been separated for some time now, my daughters are now old enough to understand that I can continue to live my life, and to me there is no better way than to start meeting friends.

I enjoy having a good conversation, communication is utmost important. I don't really need to read what's in a profile other than the basics, because to me, sharing a good conversation says more than writings.

I would like to meet a man where friendship is a start, from there you can build upon. Can't say i'm looking for long term, short term, or whatever term because to me, you can only get there by starting at the base.....being friends that is.

Love doing puzzles,the interconnecting types, wildlife is my preference. I enjoy all sorts of music, however i draw the line at country music. My favorite is Chris de Burgh....goes to show you some aspect of my personality.

I'm a mother of 2 young kids, it's a shared custody arrangement. They are young, but they are aware that i may one day be with someone special, because that is what i'm looking for here. I am not into head games, if it's not going to happen, i will say so, i just don't like keeping anyone in suspense.

I'm not superficial, i'm not looking for a trophy. What gets my attention really is someone with a good head on his shoulders.

If interested and want to know more, then let's start sharing, not having to rely on what is written, or hiding behind a keyboard.

I believe that a good start would be one where we can go out to socialise and see if there may be common interests. The place is not an issue, it's whatever we BOTH decide what we want. Just a pointer here, I don't drink coffee, tea, herbal teas or any type of beverage of that sort, yet meeting at Tim's still is no problem.

The perfect date would be one where you want to meet a 2d time to know more.