I'm a physician (neuropsychiatrist) who now writes for a living, but I'm getting a Masters in Public Health degree and becoming an advocate for the mentally ill. I love to travel. I like Florence better than Rome, Barcelona more than Madrid, and San Francisco better than Los Angeles. I've found that one's preference in cities tells a lot about a person. I have been called good-looking/attractive(other people said it not me), fit, very intelligent, kind, and a good man. I would like an attractive(looks do count),THIN/FIT(be honest), intelligent, kind woman. Fidelity and honesty are very important to me. I would like to have my own kids in the future, but that is not a deal breaker. I am not sure if I want to get involved with someone who has children who live with them, things can get complicated.

Meet at a casual public place for drinks or coffee. That way it's safe for everyone and short. If we like each other we can always go out again or extend the date, but if we don't click it's over quickly and painlessly. No great preparations were made, no great expenses outlayed. Lowered expectations just makes it easier on everyone.