Sexy, soulful, single mom seeks man with substance, smarts, sanity, sense of humor, and sensuality. I am not in a hurry, nor willing to settle.

Idealistic, creative, perhaps a bit overeducated -- I have chosen somewhat unconventional life and career paths. I have always wanted to make a positive difference in the world, while "following my bliss" in the process. Hopefully you’re at least a bit introspective, and are curious about nature and human nature and the meaning of everything.

I love literature, music, the arts, and almost all kinds of ethnic cuisine (especially sushi, Thai, Indian, Cuban). I love meeting new people, going new places, experiencing new things. I can also be perfectly content walking on a beach or through a forest that I've visited a hundred times before...or gazing at the moon and the stars for the bizillionth time...or staying in with a meal, or dessert, a bottle of red wine, or a movie, and great conversation (or any combination of those things) ... especially with good company!

I am a single mother of twin boys (6 yrs old), who are with me full-time. If you are also a parent that would be wonderful :-) If you like to bike, hike, play soccer, baseball, ice-skate, and/or swim, even better! And if you play any musical instruments, or make art, that would be very cool as well.

I am very much a down-to-earth, go with the flow sort of person -- but I am not a pushover (unless, of course, you are simply too charming to resist) ;-) If you contact me, please have clear and recent pics that are visible, or I am unlikely to reply.

Also, I am rather disinclined to respond to generic, one-line initial emails, or a blurb about yourself that you have obviously cut and pasted into a first message a dozen or more times (and perhaps forgotten that you have sent it to me more than once, lol). If you can't at least seduce me with language, then it's very unlikely you will be able to seduce me at all ;-)

For the first date, I'd prefer to meet for coffee or a drink...and if we find that there's a connection then perhaps we can plan the second date together...