I am looking for a future wife at this point in my life, however I feel anything serious has to be built on a foundation of friendship. So...I am looking for a friend essentially. I like girls who take care of themselves, as I do. Looks are important to get you in the door, but they generally fade in time. I'm a person who puts high value on self improvement and so should a prospective partner.

I am upfront and honest with people. Integrity is one of those core values that is non-negotiable. My biggest pet peeve are fake people that will try and tell you what they think you want to hear, as opposed to the truth. The bars are full of these people.

Most see me as an adventurous guy who likes to do things belly tingle. I have a lively sense of humor and I love being silly. I give people sh*t, but expect it in return. I love to make people laugh even at my own expense. I will often say things for comic or shock value. If you can't laugh at your own mistakes or shortcomings then laugh at them outloud then you should try because life is too short.

I believe in the existence of the divine. If you don't, then we'll have some fundamental differences. I attend church and try an live a morally neat life. The golden rule is one I try my best to follow consistently, except if you’re a really slow driver, then I pretty much just hate you;)

In my opinion, if a person has been blessed and been positively influenced or mentored into success then it is their responsibility to give that back to others. We all need to perpetuate the cycle of love and giving back. For this reason I am a coach, a Big Brother, and a youth mentor. Philanthropy is too often undervalued in our culture.

I actively pursue ambitious career and athletic goals that require a good amount of time and energy. I fight professionally so this is something that a mate would have to be at least comfortable with, if she enjoyed it well that's icing on the cake. If you are an ambitious, fun-loving girl who is willing to get out of her comfort zone and take adventures; I may be your huckleberry. I do care about feeling and looking good so I take care of myself with good grooming, a steady exercise regimen, and fairly consistent diet routine. If you do not, then your probably reading the wrong profile.

On a first date I would like to go some place quiet where conversation would be natural. Coffee or a drinks are the usual suspects. After the intial date I would want to invest in some dry-aged steaks or a few coldwater lobster tails for an outdoor dinner by candlelight in a discreet romantic setting. Maybe a blanket on the beach or a campsite in the mountains would be perfect places to chat and get to know one another better.