first off... my pictures are really me... that is really what i look like... im hiding nothing...

im a single mom who loves life. i like to think i work hard and am dedicated to the things i involve myself in. i am loyal to the people in my life. i have learned the hard way that good friends are very hard to find. so i hold on tight. and in return, im a dang good friend. i enjoy being busy and having a lot on my plate.. it keeps life spicy. i just adore my little rugrats... have no idea where i'd be without them... i adore my time with them, and i miss them when they are not around. i like to smile. i dislike the sound of macaroni and cheese being mixed, and smacking lips while eating... those noises gross me out. i love pictures. i'm loyal. i wear flip flops year round. i enjoy sudoku. i love music, blasting it in the car and singing (off key) loud. i like to people watch. the beach makes me smile, the air, the view, the sounds. i really enjoy a fountain drink from am/pm--with crushed ice. i thoroughly enjoy candles. i love and accept people for who they are, whether they agree or disagree with me. i love the belly laugh from a child. i'm a hopeless romantic! i love listening to the rain. i like the smell and feel of the air when it rains. i love scrapbooking and making cards. i want to go to brasil, africa, europe, australia and some cities in the u.s. i would take a trip to the happiest place on earth, anytime. my favorite flowers are gerber daisies, but any pretty flowers make me smile. i thoroughly enjoy doing kind things for people. i dislike being late, and running late. i tend to choose red as my favorite color, but it does depend on my mood. the words serendipty and perpetual have a nice sound. i have lots of goals, dreams and wants.

love is one of those words that does not have a clear definition. it has to be felt. it has to be wanted. and needs to be kind, gentle, unconditional, fun and sweet. i have lots of love to give... to the right person.

im looking for my best friend, my partner in crime. someone who is comfortable with who they really are... someone who wants to learn with me and become better with me... someone who has actual substance to bring to a relationship... someone who wants to hear my stories and wants to tell me theirs... someone to share the journey with... genuine, kind, fun love...
i am NOT looking for a one night stand. or for sex to be the topic of discussion. sex is an important part of a committed relationship, absolutely. dont ask for naked pictures of me, because that's dumb. please do not waste your time emailing me if those are the things you are looking for...

im on aim -- slfluvdp