I am a new fish and this is a work in progress. As I think of something new I will return and add more. I know you would like to read something interesting. What I have noticed about this site is it does not force you say much about your self. I think most of the connections are visually driven. Certainly it is as important as the mental connection, just the presentation perspective is different. It is like I am shopping for apples and they are not in the produce department, they are scattered all over the store. I hope that analogy makes sense.

For now, here are some match words in alphabetical order of things I enjoy: art, beach, Carolina, concerts, conversation, cooking, Florida, funny, golf, honesty, hope, intelligent, intimacy, islands, keylimepie, laughter, lifeisgood, love, monogamous, movies, museums, music, obx, ocean, pda, RedSox, roadtrip, rollercoasters, romantic, seafood, shagging, snowskiing, soulmate, spooning, steak, sunset, sunshine, theater, travel, tropical, trust, water, wine, witty.

What am I looking for? The same thing your are. When a relationship clicks, it's a very cool thing. I like cool things, they always make you feel good. My friends think I am a good looking, fun guy. I say I am just trying to stay on the bright side of life. So I'm living in Raleigh, hanging out with my circle of friends and looking to meet someone new. I don't want my friends to set me up and we all have done the bar scene. So how do you get that fun date? Try this I guess. I think it sexy when the girl takes the initiative in a relationship, then I can take it from there. So feel free to contact me first. I promise you this; I hide no secrets, I tell no lies, I am a hopeless romantic, and I will make you laugh. My username in my real name and you can email me directly at Yahoo if you like. If you would like to know more about me now, search my name on Facebook and check out my profile page. I keep it current and the page is not locked down so you can view it anonymously. So chat or email, I hope to hear from you. Thanks for reading this and good luck to you too.

Be sure to check back I am going to add some better photos soon.

I think an easy first date, though I have yet to try it, is lunch at the Art Museum, food with a great view how cool is that. For maximum success the trick is to be relaxed and use your words, sounds simple enough. Be prepared to tell me your best feature and your favorite desert. The catch is you can not say eyes or chocolate. I look forward to meeting you.