Thanks for reading this, but read on baby! Make sure that we are looking for the same things

YOU: Specifically, I am looking for a sophisticated, educated and fit/healthy man 38-52 who wants a NORMAL long-term relationship who is very considerate, kind, responsible, mentally stable (no anger issues/no screamers) who is capable of love and affection; and will adore my two kids as I do. If you have children, they will be important to me too. You should be drug-free, debt-free and-STD free. If you have no picture, I won't be on your favorite list.

ME: Really fun, political, bright, healthy and trustworthy lady looking for a normal, balanced, sweet and sexy man. Not a serial dater here. Love to get to know someone, so no one night stands. Just be a nice man with good values. You can be Jewish, Protestant, Catholic etc., have a new age-worldly outlook and please don't be a racist, bigoted or a mean person. You should respect people and love your family. You must not be intimidated by strong, independent women. Prefer NYC/Manhattan, Westchester, Greenwich or D.C.. Please don't send any graphic or nasty photos to me or any other woman it just makes you look cheap/dysfunctional.

I like to laugh, go out to movies, museums, sports events, affectionate, love to hear all about you, and I'm emotionally supportive to you and have sympathy hearing about work/your job. You should like to travel. If my dog doesn't like you, that could be a problem.

Disclaimer: Please no profiles missing pictures. Please NO phone calls with blocked out numbers, I need to know that you are trying to be transparent. Also, Please disclose age of old pictures, weight problems, marriage status the FIRST time we talk, there seems to be a lot of disinformation going on on this site!!! Sorry just have had too many first dates with people who weighed 50 lbs more than in their profile. Thanks, and good luck to everyone.

We meet for coffee, a drink; meeting you should NOT be conducting a job interview, so please don't interview me about my research, political ideology and my contributions within my field. I'm looking for a boyfriend, not a job!!!

The the best part of meeting the right person is the mystery of attraction and respecting the person for who they are and their accomplishments. If you are just looking for sex, you probably won't be happy since I'm looking for more than that!