Guess who's back in town~

If you are wondering "who is this guy who is looking at my profile, and why is he not contacting me", here may be some reasons:

1. POF says it is OK to look.
2. I am somewhat shy when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex except when it is realated to work or school. (Hey, I was taught how to lead Soldiers, not how to have relationships.)
3. I really read profiles. So there may have been something in it that indicates to me that you may not be interested in me. Maybe I'm wrong?

So it is not necessarily because I'm not interested.

A few things to get out of the way first (in no particular order):
* Not a bad-boy or a Harley guy (I've never been on a motorcycle)
* Really divorced (over 8 years)
* Get along with the Ex
* Have two daughters over 21 (with kids of their own)
* Employed (including a civilian job I'm returning to)
* Own my own home (along with the mortgage company)
* No drugs
* Not a player
* Emotionally available
* Not looking for one-night stands

I was most recently an Army officer (recalled back to active duty, but now I'm back), former Reserve Deputy Sheriff (15 yrs) and former Boy Scout (5 yrs)…must be a uniform thing. I have a good sense of humor, am trustworthy and loyal (also thrifty and brave and whatever else Boy Scouts are). I am a straightforward guy and I appreciate that quality in others. I like to have a good time with friends and family. Whether it is a cookout, checking out a band at the local club, a game of volleyball or just relaxing.

I am old enough to know better but young enough to do it again.I miss that feeling you get when you cannot wait to see or call that someone who gives your stomach butterflies. I want that feeling again when there is nobody else in the world other than the two of you. I am looking for a best friend, companion and lover. It would be great to have someone to cuddle with, whether it is cold outside or not.

Relationships take time to build and I want to do it right. I have no desire to become a “serial dater”, but I’m not going to rush into anything. If I remember right, dating was fun. Of course I'm getting older and my memory isn't what it used to be.

I desire a woman with a sense of humor, independent, confident, intelligent, imaginative, caring, fun loving and above all honest. A woman who wants to be in an equal partnership, one who believes in common courtesy (like responding to an email or wink, even if it is a "thanks, but no thanks"), the "golden rule" and hopes chivalry is not dead (there are a few of us left out there). There seems to be a lot of that missing in the "online world". If you only really want a “pen pal”, and don’t plan on meeting, be upfront about it. My philosophy is that I wait until you are comfortable with things (via email) and don’t push for phone #s or meeting. If you find you're not interested, please tell me and don't just disappear.

I like meeting for coffee (or tea) for the first time (well, its not really a "date"). Some place somewhat quiet so we can have a pleasant conversation and no pressure. Also one with easy exits so you can make a quick dash if necessary :-)

Afterwards on the real first (and subsequent) date, I’m looking for someone who likes to go out and do things (dinner, movie, theater, concerts, weekend trips, etc.), is also happy staying home other times, and who doesn’t expect me to make ALL the decisions. Is that you?