Are you fun loving? Tired of giving & getting nothing in return; talking but never heard? Let's talk. I love fun, love to pamper, I listen... not just "hear"

I am looking for a special someone to enjoy what life has to offer. I don't need perfect and I am certainly not perfect. I desire someone who is optimistic and realistic and does not dwell on the past. We cannot have any effect on the past but we can on the present and future. I enjoy stimulating conversations; the ones that make you think while talking to each other and can sometimes change my opinion on a topic.

I am told I am very romantic. I value the human touch. The gentle touch on an arm or caress of the back. Holding hands, hugging, a gentle kiss and a passionate kiss. Kissing is important (LOL). I like it when we can look at each other from across the room and a warm smile comes across the face automatically. I will be your support and help for all you do or your biggest cheerleader. Whatever it is you need. I will listen; not just hear you. I will not judge you or belittle you if what you say or feel does not agree with my view. I hope you will return some of the same.

My perfect match would be someone who has a confidence in herself that shows by her actions and not just her words. She wants to have fun and balance between relaxing and going places. We want to share lifes ups and downs as a "TEAM". Our past mistakes are things that have helped us to grow as we have learned from them and made ourselves better and they have refined us.

I want to have someone whom I cherish and be cherished in return. My greatest joy in a relationship comes from pleasing that special person. I do like public affection, (within reason) and will be quite proud to be seen with that special someone.

I do like to laugh and hope she is one who shares the same. Sometimes my humor can be a little sarcastic, but in a more self-depricating way. I can also take a good joke on me, as well. I am a kid at heart and enjoy "acting up playfully" with you.

I am comfortable sitting at home snuggled up and watching TV or just sharing the days events. I am also perfectly fine with taking a trip on the spur of the moment. Do you enjoy shopping? I am a rare man who actually enjoys going with you. I will gladly hold those "clothing possibilities" while you look and when asked, give you my honest opinion if you try it on. Do you get bored grocery shopping? Bring me along and I will push the basket. I have been known to enjoy to craft shows, as well.

Need to unwind from a stressful day? How about a massage? I am told I am good at relaxing those tense shoulders, neck and back!

I have a great and upbeat attitude. I believe attitudes can shape our life and those around us. One of the things I teach at work is a Customer Service Class. I challenge the attendees to ask themselves, "Is my attitude worth catching".

On a 1st date, I would like to meet somewhere where you feel comfortable. A place that is comfortable. I like upbeat, but want to be able to hear each other. A place like a Panera Bread or a place like Bahama Breeze or Applebee's. Somewhere so that we can feel comfortable to talk and not feel rushed to leave so the waiter can have their next victim. :)