First of all "long term" means dating first.

Given that, I refuse to give up on finding the person for me,
I'm tired of coming home to just the cat.

Music speaks to me . My headline is usualy a song title. If you can tell me the artist you get bonus points.......... as if............

My heart strings are there to be tugged at. They are long and deep.
I'm not afraid or ashamed to cry in a movie or in public. I don't think that makes me any less of a man.
I am a hopless romantic. Rather watch a drama or romance "Love Acttually" comes to mind than an 'action too hard to believe' anyday. "Random Hearts", "The Notebook", "Someone Like You" great, "Good Will Hunting " is probably the best movie ever.....Ya know... they end up together in the end kind...... somehow. Fairy tail I know but I've learned enough now to know........... It could happen.

I am active, very young at heart and mind. Honest, sincere, compassionate, very playful, caring, sensitive, sensual and very sexual. Moderately intellectual....... Sometimes I even surprise myself.
I can hold my own in a debate but know not to when I don't know enough about it. I won't try anything once, unless it's a sure thing. Never had the guts to karokie, but then they never have any 'Eagles' songs on the list. 'Best of my love' comes to mind.
I'm somewhat entertaining, and I have a great sense of humor. I make fun of myself best.
I enjoy cooking, love to bake and don't mind cleaning so that's not what I'm looking for. I do like to cook with or for someone. I learned most of what I know about relationships from Duece Bigalow....O.K. that was a joke but somewhat true.
I own my own house, have a small remodeling co. and work part-time at U.P.S. for the great benifits. I have huge tropical plants that reminde of just that. Florida is a goal as soon as the housing mkt. comes back to its senses.
I enjoy doing the things for my partner that she does'nt have to ask for, like starting your car in the winter and scraping the windshield. Warming your side of the bed. Foot rubs, lower back massages, (ya know right above the butt cheeks.) Sugar Scrubbs, (the best). You'll just have to ask.
Really the only way to get to know each other is talk, and that takes time.
I'm the kind of person who is gets excited about seeing and talking to you. Listening to you about your day.

I am looking for mental and physical chemistry. This will sound shallow and I read this alot in womens profiles too but physical attraction is as important as the mental and emotional part of a relationship to me.
A size 6 to 10 seems to fit well with me. Of course that means HWP. Smaller is good too. I know that I am going to get negitive feed-back for that but I'm not any different than most of the womens profile I read.
I try to eat healthy. I'm not looking for 'Barbie', and I don't mean the gym. We are all at the age when things are starting to 'fade'. (Lack of a better word or words.)
Hopefully she would be a little sexualy aggressive and no I don't mean now, we're all adults here.
I'm sure I left alot of things out so you'll just have to very questionable.

I don't like to call the first meeting a date. It's more like a job interveiw for both of us. Drinks, coffee or maybe dinner if we get along nicely. Ya know, get to know each other. Our wants, needs and expectations.............. What'd you expect lot's of groping???????????