With my tongue in cheek, I shall attempt to capture the heart and mind of some unsuspecting male... I am "that" girl. Perhaps you haven't met one like me? I can banter with the best of them (is this you?), laugh at life's attempt at making me "jaded", or cry with a friend because his/her heart is broken then take them out and pour drinks down their gullet and hold their head as they puke...I only gag a little. I sing, poorly, in my car...in the shower...to my kids. "MOM STOP!" I dance, anywhere! In the house doing laundry..with my kids..on a dance floor..alone or not. Isn't life just one big "dance"? I can go from "guy's girl" yelling at some ump. who made a bad call, to "girly girl" getting my paws and claws done, playing in makeup, or finding that perfect new outfit. I'm not so much into the camping thing...those bugs just get to me! but I can throw a bullet from third to first! I strive to make everyone around me enjoy my company. I'm easy to be around, comfortable in my skin and yet, still, I have my moments of insecurity...we all do... I will never ask if I look "fat", I have a mirror. I won't be that chick that chases you into your "cave" asking "what's wrong?" "is it me?" You'll come out to play when you're good and ready! I do the same and those closest to me respect it. I am not demanding, but at the same token, I will not be taken advantage of. I am both sides of that coin...a contradiction.."that" girl. You?? Well..I could just go on and on about what I THINK I'm looking for. Frankly, like you all, I"m just hoping someone is going to come along and knock me on my ass, take me for a loop, and hang in there for the "dance". Physically, I've found my attraction to lean towards tall men. Oh, and TEETH...definately a must! There's nothing more repelling than nasty or missing teeth (come on! there are dentists!). Emotionally? give me a m&m, hard outer shell with a soft inside. Let's "dance"...