Ok here goes...I am a divorced white male living in the south burbs of Chicago, I do have children and custody of them, I say this upfront because I am an honest person, and if we talked it tells you a little bit about me already. My children are getting older now and of course there all potty trained....and it's time for dad to find someone to share ideas and thoughts with each other. I'm a very down to earth person with a good heart and also a good sense of humor to go with it. The most important things are communication...say what you mean........mean what you say.....and also listen to each other as well. I like a variety of things to do and would like to share that with a special person. If you would like to know more just ask.we don't have resumes posted so it takes time to get to know someone..hope to hear from you and if not good luck in your search...........

A first date I think would be really sitting down and talking to someone see who they really are. I'm sure before this you have exchanged a few notes on here or talked on phone.........meeting someone will tell you who both of you are....and hopefully it leads to another date,,,,,