I'm divorced, a father of three daughters, new to Naples as of 3/15/09 (by way of California, the Mid-west and the East Coast) & I'm looking for new & exciting friends & one lover. So here it goes: I’m classy (know which silverware to use), well read, well educated & I’ve been told that I’m good looking. Initially very shy but outgoing once the ice is broken & hopelessly romantic. In many ways I’m somewhat of a paradox, a man of opposites, complicated yet simple. A good man with a little bad boy. I have a passion for the martial arts (I study several) yet I try to achieve harmony with others in my daily life. I can laugh at myself yet I'm not afraid to shed a tear when my youngest does something new. I am extremely protective of my kids yet cherish it when they exert their free spirit. My politics run from just to the right of Attila the Hun on fiscal policy & national defense to liberal on social issues. I am a voracious reader (I have 2-3 books going at any one time), from eastern thought & history to fiction & erotic literature. I love the outdoors & all it has to offer.

Who am I looking for? My best friend, a buddy, a lover. I am NOT looking for my mother (I have one thank you). I want a woman who is just as comfortable in an evening dress as in a pair of cutoff Levi’s & a tank top (love that). I want someone who can have just as much fun out on the town or just hanging naked under a blanket in front of a fire. A woman who understands that confidence is sexy and who is not afraid to tell me what she wants. A woman who knows that a gentle caress can mean just as much as saying “I love you”. Someone who appreciates the little things that come from the heart. I want someone to have fun with. Someone who will go to a private/secluded nude beach with minimal negotiation. Someone who can listen and understand my hopes and dreams along with my trials and fears and know that I will do the same in return.