Hi. I am attractive physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually, and I'm looking for that in you.Your fine charachter w/ a good, giving heart is the most important part of you that I value.I AM ONLY LOOKING FOR A MAN BORN JEWISH.I AM SURE THE REST OF YOU ARE WONDERFUL,AND I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST OF LUCK IN FINDING WHO IS FOR YOU.
I have beautiful green eyes and reddish brown hair and look much better in person, and 8-10 years younger than my chronology!
Are you a man who can be counted on,be there for the other in their need, appreciative, negotiate and compromise,spiritual, be reliable,emotionally/financially stable,faithful,,devoted, flexible,humorous,generous, patient,positive outlook,a talker and a listener,respectful,neat,relaxed,fun,other-centered w/ a "what can I do for you" approach to relationships, who can make space within yourself for me? If yes, read on! Strong attraction is a must. Common interests would help: live music brings out something special in me,walking outdoors,sporting events,anywhere by/in/on the water, mountains,the woods,fire places,charity events,learning something together,discovering new places while revisiting the familiar as well,hanging out w/each other's friends/family,enjoying the Sabbath and Jewish holidays and events,travel,hanging out at home watching movies/TV and doing everyday things, dining out and cooking in, relaxing w/ candlelit rooms, trying something w/ the other that you would not normally do,community and family oriented a plus.
I hope we can develop a friendship on the way to a long term relationship leading to marriage.
I love kids,especially mine, but would appreciate someone who wants to be close without having more children. I would grow to love your children as I hope you would do for mine, who are teenagers spending more time w/ their friends than with parents at this point, even though one of them spends part of every other weekend w/ me! That leaves more time for us alone! But I love family, so I welcome that and want to be included in your family and with your friends as i would w/ mine.
Having grown up in Upstate NY,even though I am living in NYC,I am genuinely polite and enjoy all 4 seasons, and am really playful and creative as well.
I appreciate a few emails leading to the phone which would lead to in-person dates bc there is no way to truly get to know someone's totality other than in person.
The personality questionnaire here is fairly accurate EXCEPT for 2 parts:self-control-I am detailed-oriented,focus well, and finish tasks,as well as stay w/in and outside the lines. Also,even after the regret and apologies, I continue to forgive someone's actions/words, as I have in the past,but I have evolved into someone who no longer wants to stay w/a man who does not change his behavior/words for the better. How they got most of the other parts pretty accurate but those 2 parts wrong proves that getting to know someone personally, experiencing them in different settings, is the best way.
Why not risk for 'in to me see' aka intimacy?

I think a combination of outdoors and indoors would be great,if possible. Being able to look into your eyes, watch your body, and listen to your voice would be a great start. Being near the water at night would set a wonderful mood, but I am open to a daytime date as well. Having that feeling inside each of us, and we both know that we want to see each other again, and you tell me.Being in the company of the right man supercedes the location, but on a balmy summer night, outside having drinks by the water is great, and an indoor place w/ a fireplace is excellent in winter, but not necessary. Both getting to know each other at a pace that works for us, knowing that we have that 'good nervous' feeling that we will see each other soon, is a great first date!