Primarily seeking new friends - female or male.

Please note: "Friends" is NOT a euphemism for "friends with benefits" or "other" kind of relationship. If we ever meet in "real" life, you will most certainly meet my SO (Significant Other) as well. (If you are interested in FWB, please apply through my S.O. and include a resume and photos.)

There's nothing like a stimulating discussion to keep the mind sharp and the blood boiling (er, I mean flowing!). I'm decidedly spiritual (Buddhist/Taoist leanings), but unabashedly skeptical. I'm curious to find out why you believe what you believe, for instance. Why does religion matter to anyone, in modern times? Oh well, now that I've probably stepped on lots of toes, how about some polite discussion? lol My interests go far beyond this topic, though, so don't limit yourself if you care to write me.

I am also in the best relationship of my life (even if it is a bit unconventional), and have been for the past 9+ years. We met online after extensive searching, so I think I know a little about finding successful relationships this way. I had several good ones. I definitely think personality types play a very useful role in finding a compatible partner (I'm INTJ, my SO is INFJ). Also, several of my best friends were found online, starting as penpals from several countries and several states. I've met and spent time with all of them. So, yes, it is very possible to find great relationships - and FRIENDS! - online!

I'm always on the lookout for another true friend - quality over quantity. I'd love to meet you if you're in the area or just passing through.

I've relocated for love, I've traveled halfway around the world for love, and I've been in successful alternative relationships.

Private email conversations (as opposed to forums) and new friends welcome - men or women - especially if you have something interesting to say about relationships, spirituality, philosophy, science, or another of the interests I've listed.

As for the new personality profile, it is fairly accurate except for the implication that I do not exert self-control in my actions. As a Taoist-in-training, I tend to "go with the flow" rather than force things into my preconceived ideas. If that is lack of "control," then so be it!

Being. Nothingness. An epiphany! Coffee and doughnuts, or sushi and sake, kayaking, a stroll on the nearby beach (NOT a cliche - for real!), or any mutual interest.