I am actually discouraged that it has come to me looking on the internet for dating. I like to powerlift/bodybuild, take care of myself....I am not a "player" type, and I look for more than just one thing....

It seems women just put up a profile and 1000 desperate guys start sending messages to them. Sorry ladies, but I am NOT that guy. Some things should NOT be like work. It should be easy, and just happen. If not, so be it. I'm ok with me. (I GUESS CHICKS NOWADAYS LIKE GIRLY MEN?!?)

I have been by myself for a while and enjoy my independance. I have a great job and plenty of interests that keep me busy. (Outlaw 10.5 Drag car..lifting weights... my friends and family...I have a 13 year old son that I see every-other weekend). The only thing missing is a special person to share my time with. Its fun going out and letting loose, but as far as relationships go, the bar is really not my ideal place to meet a girl.

I have had my share of misfortune in the past (just like everyone else).......and I know what I want in a partner.
I am not here for fun. I am not here to meet as many people as humanly possible, or start pen-pal relationships....I want a match.
I am not shallow. Lets face it...physical attraction is what draws us together. All the other stuff will keep you around!