I am fit, active, fun, a bike racer. Work in Physical therapy .I am divorced with a 13 year old son I share custody of. I love animals my 18 year old dog was my baby. I just had to put her to sleep. The hardest thing I've ever done . I miss her terribly! Rest in peace Winnie!
I can throw on jeans or dress up formal. That was a joke, as I have seen that line in about a thousand women's profiles...oh yes , you don't have to write " This is the hard part " when it asks for a description, as I have seen that in about two thousand profiles!
I think one should be more interested in who people are ,rather than what they like.
Have you rescued an animal? If you hit a parked car , would you leave a note?
Who are you really and what matters to you? Honesty matters.
I have been doing the online dating thing a while now and have learned only one thing, that I still don't understand women! So ladies if you don't show me that you are at least interested, don't expect me to keep pursuing you! I simply can't tell what you are thinking without some clues! If you ever told me you couldn't go out because you had to wash your hair, well, I would think you had to wash your hair! So if you ever used a line like that on a guy, consider it payback when a guy you like doesn't call you back because maybe some small thing you said made him feel like you weren't interested , and he didn't want to feel like a fool for not picking up some on clues" .
Oh and for all you women who want "Chemistry" ...why? Its your hormones raging, it's lust , it's... heck I admit it, it's fun to find someone you have chemisrty with ! But is it really important? I don't think so. What's left after the chemistry? What you really should be looking for ,and I think people used to look for it first, is: Compatabilty ! I have talked to many many women and found that most of the time their relationships were not found on Chemistry they did not even like the guy in the beginning most of the time ! Sure I have had chemisrty with a few women , and you know what , they didn't last long at all. So think about your past relationships. For me , the person I married ( and divorced after 13 years ) it took a bit of time to really grow together ( and grow apart too ! lol)Chemistry is the spark, but personality and values are the flame.
I am not a simple person, I have deep feelings, sometimes get emotional, while other times I can have a cold clinical view.
I guess I am a romantic at heart. I fall in love, I get hurt , I keep going. Life is like that. If you want to love , you open yourself up to be hurt. But if you don't feel hurt at times, you will never be able to experience the highs , the love , the bliss.
Sometimes all it takes is one kiss, just one kiss , is all it would have taken...



"and in the end, the love you take..is equal to...the love ..you've made"

1st meeting would be coffee or such.Just to see if we like each other enough to have a date.

1st date would be something simple, just go to nice place for dinner where we can talk.
Oh do not be alarmed that I am a "player " just because I have a lot of "friends" It just means someone added me. Does not mean I met them or even talked with them