I am looking for a guy who can be my best pal someone with similar interests who likes the outdoors and who is spontanious. I am sure i could list everything i would want but that would be very long lol... anyway to me the most improtant aspect i look for in a guy is honesty and someone who is not going to play games... Definatly tired of the guys who play games!!! I am so not into it.... I feel that maybe lifes biggest mistakes are actually blessings in disguise..... Have u ever noticed that when life closes one door, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we didnt see the one that has been opened for us. I have learned that every person that i have contact with and every relatioship I have had, for the good and bad, have served a purpose, also shaped who I am today and who I will be in the future. I feel very lucky to have a few wonderful amazing friends the kind of friend that I can sit in front of a fire pit with and, never say a word, then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation, I have ever had because we understand each other and have that unspoken connection. It just might be true that we don't know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't know what we have been missing until it arrives. Caring about someone is never an assurance that they will care back.....I dont expect it in return, it might grow in their heart, but if it does not, I am content that it grew in mine. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. There have been moments in my life when I have missed someone so much that I just wanted to pick out of my dreams and hug them for real. because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Happiness lies for those who hurt those who cry, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.