Don't let the separated status scare you off! I have been separated over a year, with no hope of reconciliation. I would be glad to share the story with you, but only if you ask! I don't want to bore you, and I promise--no drama!
I am an old fashioned romantic at heart, but have been forced into realism against my will! I am a caregiver, and enjoy this about myself. But I am not looking to find someone that NEEDS to be taken care of. Rather, I am looking to find a symbiotic, take-care-of-each-other type relationship. Someone I can just be with and enjoy their company, and feel comfortable he feels the same. I want the relationship to come easy, although I know any relationship takes work. I just don't want it to FEEL like work. I want to hang out with my buddy, and let things naturally evolve.