To start with...let's clear the air. Yes, I do have debt, but NO I don't expect you to pay my bills. Yes, I do have a child, but I'm not looking for a dad for her, she already has one of those..I'm simply looking for someone to share and enjoy my life with..it's just that simple!

If you're over 40, I'm really not interested, but thanks! And, if you can't post even one picture WITHOUT sunglasses,you must be hiding something. Not sure if it's worth my time. Eyes can say a lot about someone! In addition, sending me two short msgs. saying nothing more than "hi" and "how are you" does not entitle you to a meeting with me. I have myself and a child to consider when making my choices of who I'd like to meet, so OBVIOUSLY I'm going to be a little picky and take the time to get to know someone first! It's a crazy crazy world out there!
Also,if you are in the military and overseas and would just like someone to talk with, I don't mind writing back and forth. From what I hear it can get pretty boring over there and since you are there for us, I figure it's the least I can do.

Let's see. I'm a one man woman. I DO NOT SHARE!! And when I find him and he commits himself to me, I do exactly the same. Not saying everything will be perfect, but it will be a fun life trying!:) I have no racial preferences. It's who you are not the color or ethnicity you are that makes the difference.

I like to think I'm easy going once I get to know the person/people I'm around. I'm a bit shy and standoffish at first but usually always polite about it (tend to do nothing but smile a lot and say very little). Love being outdoors (particularly the beach!!!), spending time with my daughter or family(just not my own immediate in particular), hanging out and enjoying the evening and watching a movie at night, like the simple things like bowling, putt putt, the usual "to be a kid again" stuff. Not much of a skydiver or bungy jumper, but would love to watch whoever I'm with if that's what they are into. Not into being changed or trying to change someone, but also know that some change is good if you are to make a relationship work. I like to try and be supportive and encouraging, although I may not say it all the time. When dating someone I like to spend a lot of time with them when they are available, yet understand a little space is important too. Can sometimes be the jealous type, but if you earn my trust I'm typically more calm and accepting. I guess it just takes me a little time to warm up?!?:) I'm not about the finer things in life. Material things are nice and I do enjoy the occasional gift, but time spent showing you care is more important. Like hanging with friends or family in a home or restaraunt gathering rather than bars. Love sports bars though.

One note... There is and probably will be some drama in my life.. Hate to say it to you guys who think it's possible WITHOUT being totally boring, but there WILL be drama (conflict I like to call it..all depends on your definition as well) in any successful relationship.. Otherwise someone is bsing, cheating, or simply doesn't care about the other and their opinions/feelings!!! Not saying my drama consists of the knock down drag 'em out fighting, but nothing will ALWAYS be peachy keen on a bed of roses, so if you can handle these slight mishaps and deal with it and me appropriately, we're good!:)

Some place where we can sit and talk...whether it be a park, dinner, coffee, the beach. Getting to know someone on a closer level should be the main reason for a first date.