"I'd much rather have eyes that can not see;
ears that can not hear;
lips that can not speak,
than a heart that can not love"

Hii, my name is Bailin and I'm from the 818. I'm about 5'7 with pretty blue eyes and hair. I would post a hair color but as you can already tell, it changes too often to keep updating this. I'm a big girl, but I'm working on it. I feel that its important to add that one in here because a lot of guys aren't so into a larger lady. But if you are okay with that, and feel that we could have something, then feel free to contact me.
I'm rewriting this section, because it was getting old and needed to be updated.
I think that its also important to say that I'm probably the sweetest girl ever. (; I'm a kind stranger, a protective friend, and a passionate lover. I put others before myself and for that same reason I get many attempts to be walked all over... I may be nice, but I'm not stupid. I could spin circles around people with my intelligence.
Something that I could not live without is music.
I am crazy about music. I like all types and genres and there's no limit to what I could listen to on any given day.
It can go start with the Eagles or Boston if I'm feeling classic rock, to
some TI or Eminem or Lil Wayne if I'm feeling some hip hop. Britney Spears, Katy Perry, and then P!nk like to come out right before I bust out Nirvana, Korn, and System of a Down. Then ofcorse I gotta add some Willie Nelson, Tim McGraw, Taylor Swift and Johnny Cash to match for every KmK or Icp, or any other psychopathic artist. Gotta add the Jewel and Mariah Carey to go with the Rise Against and Social D. And OFCORSE I have to top it off with some Missy Elliot, Dr. Dre or Warren G to bump before I end it with Miley Cyrus or Beth Hart.
Lmao, yea music is more of an obsession for me. I'd say that music is my first love and I wish I could say that it was my only love... Unfortunately, I've had my heart broken a few times, and once I got over the initial shock, I learned the best thing to do is insure protection above all. Don't get me wrong, I am honestly ready and I really do want to have someone important to me that I can love deeply and fully. But I guess I have to sort though all the "could bees" to the one who can prove they actually "would be". I protect my heart a lot, and I definitely don't just give it out to anyone. Some call it "picky", but in my opinion its refusing to settle for less than I deserve.. also known as: poor judgement.
As for the type of guys that I am into. Character is the most important, I need someone to keep me on my toes, I'm smart and sarcastic to say the least.. Don't be surprised if I have everyone laughing because I'm such a smartass. So with that being said, I need someone with a sense of humor. No quiet, shy, guys here! And even when a tough guy can be cute n all sometimes, I don't want a hardass all the time!
Protect me as my man, not my father or owner. I need an equal, not someone to babysit me, boss me around, or make me feel like I'm beneath them. I'm a strong chick and even if I don't speak out often, when I feel its necessary, I'll blow your mind with the truth. I don't like liars, cheaters, abusers, manipulators, or flat out fakes, so keep searching if you have any of these qualities..

Trust is above all thee most important thing to me. Trust is a gift that is earned, not given. I need to know that if I give someone the most important part of me, my heart, that they won't make me regret it. I in return would be the best girlfriend, best friend there I can be. I'm a sweet playful girl, and I'd like any man of mine to atleast love me for who I am and appreciate all the sheer devotion I would give them in return.
As for looks, I'm pretty open. As long as your not a creature or monster, we're straight.. I prefer a kinda fat guy cause in my opinion a lean, chubby man is the hottest thing on earth. I like to be able to look up at my man, not look down, so please be at least 5'10 so we have that 3 inch leeway. And I tend to think white guys are thee most attractive, but that's not always the case, but most of the time..
Ok, thanks for reading this loooong about me, hit me up if your intersted.
D u e c e s
aim: xHustlerx329

I'm open to ideas. It all depends on the person. I am so down with a beach trip at sunset or maybe a local Starbucks so we can talk or something. First dates are simple, so lets just pick something easy and cheap!