My name is Chris, and I'm from Kalamazoo, Michigan. I'm going to school to be a cook, so whoever I end up with BETTER love food:) I'm looking for someone real, and that I can take serious. If you're one of those people that are constantly getting on and off here because you love the attention you get from all the guys on this site, then you don't even need to read the rest of my profile. I'm looking for a WOMAN, not someone that gets all giddy because they have 100 emails from all sorts of desperate, socially depraved losers that have to get online to meet women. Go back to high school. I'd love to meet someone older then myself, because I've learned the hard way you can't take anyone serious my age or younger. my generation seems to want their cake and ice cream, and are always quick to tell you what you want to hear. I've always said that age shouldn't be an issue for getting to know someone, but I'm learning that it is. I just want someone that can be honest with me about everything. I'm not on here to compete for anyone's attention or affection. I don't need to talk to 3 or 4 women at once. I can settle for talking to one person. I'm looking for quality, not quanity. And besides, how can you really figure out what someone has to offer you if you divide your attention among numerous people? It's not fair to you or the other person, and you're not giving the situation the chance it deserves.


I love a woman that can be open and tell me how she feels. I'm an open book when in a relationship. I don't want to have to twist your arm just to get you to talk to me. I want someone that can meet me in the middle and talk to me about anything. I love having deep conversations about the relationship and where it's going.


I'm a huge cuddler too. It's one of my favorite things to do when I'm at home with someone. especially late at night when there's a movie on. so if you're a touchy feely kind of girl, major bonus points: )


So PLEASE...if you don't know what you want, don't waste my time. I'm sick of trying to get to know people that act and say the right things in the beginning, then turn around and dissapear the next day.

I don't really know about the first date. they are always ackward, so I would want to do something kinda laid back I guess.