I am new to the site and to the whole idea of internet dating. It was recommended to me by a friend who had met his partner on the site, and as I believe in having control of your own destiny I thought I would give it a go.

I enjoy many things including skiing and skydiving. At the weekends I am a Skydiving Instructor and during the week I run my own construction business which keeps me busy. My initial background was in the armed services - I could tell you about it but then I would have to thrill you.

I am seperated and my 2 boys (15 & 17) live with me. I am on POF to make new friends with a view to meeting my soulmate. I have a romantic streak a mile wide. I am affectionate, so expect cuddles. Laughter is an important part in any relationship and it is good to share the joys and adventures that life brings.

I am looking for a fun and vivacious woman who I can laugh with, chat with, spend quality time with and share hugs. I am open to trying new things and am a very positive person. My soulmate may only be a click away.

Despite my adventurous background, I would not make you jump out of an aircraft..... well not on the first date ;-) It is important to be able to talk so I would suggest meeting somewhere public but quiet enough to chat. It could be coffee, it could be drinks but it would be something we both agreed on..... and it would be fun.