After time on here I decided to change this. I like what I wrote here before but I need to make some clarifications. I am keeping my options open right now. This can have many meanings but the biggest is I am looking for the special someone. That one person that can give to me as much as I can for him.

I will explain myself first. I tend to be a happy, positive person. Being too nice and caring for people is one of my weakness. Some of my choices in my life have not been the best but I would not change a thing. A way I like to explain that is simply complicated. I am pretty normal on my likes and dislike. One of my dislikes that I would never do is sky diving. What’s the use of jumping out of a perfectly good plane? lol If that someone I am with want to try or do it, to me I would be excited for him and encouraging of it. All of my friends will tell you that I am big time supportive. Everyone makes choices in their lives that might be bad or good but they are their own choices. You can help to encourage some to do the right thing but what’s right for one person may not be right for another.

Here is a couple things that are very important to me to find in someone:

Trust, Loyalty, Listening, Supportive, Communication, Generous, Caring, Compassionate, Intelligence, Kindness, Passionate, Drive, Ambition, Sweet, Strong, and Funny.

I know that there is no perfect person out there for me but I am looking for close. Everyone does deserve a chance but sometimes its better not to waste anyone’s time when there is not anything there. Attraction is a big factor for me. I would like to find that one person who I am passionately attracted to as well he is to me. That one person who when he walks in the door I smile.

Being on here and meeting a few of the men on here I noticed some people lie about little things. For instance height, weight or something else. I am very real and very honest. Editing your photos so you look better is not going to impress anyone. That is just like a lie to me. My photos are very real, most of them I took them myself.

Some other things that are important to me is someone who is understanding and open. Not everyone has had life handed to them. Allot of us had to fight for what we have. I am addicted to a challenges. Having to fight for everything that I have has shown me that every little thing or moment is important to me. I am not interested in having everything in life and being rich. I am more interested in living my life. Not everyone has what we have and I am very thankful for what I have. I would like to find someone who is interested in living life to the fullest. Life is way too short to not enjoy everything that this world has to offer.

I do have two addictions in my life that I would like to make sure the guy I am with likes as much as I do. Traveling is something I have done. For the time being I cant do as much traveling as I wish I could. In a couple years I would like to get back into it. My other addiction is to be able to dress up and go out. Usually I would wear one of my favorite dresses that hugs my curves. When I go out I like it when the guy I am out with dresses up in a suit. To me there is nothing sexier than a guy in a suit.

I am a hopeless romantic. A picnic at a park, dinner, and finding a hole in the wall bar for drinks. Going some place that you can freely chat with someone.