i would like to meet someone honest who is open to a serious relationship...i want to start the next chapter of my life...somebody who understands the importance of getting to know one another and joking around is a must...a nice smile and kind eyes that make me feel i can trust them is an added bonus...if you dont know how to smile i am not the girl for you...if you know how to smile please do it often...i feel a lot of a relationship is about compromise and i feel i am able to do that when it is important to make somebody happy...all i ask in return is some patience and kindness...also if you dont have similar interests as me thats cool, i probably dont like all the things you like either, but i am willing to try them and learn what i can to have fun doing things we both like...i am all about honesty though, even when things dont look like they are working out, just tell me, its adult, honest and upfront...i have enough stuff in my history to know that i would rather be told its not going anywhere upfront than just have silence be the solution, besides you never know, we could end up great friends and help each other find the person we are supposed to be with even if we are not those people...the bottomline is i dont want to play games, i hate them and am not good at them...finding love is not a game, its a journey that games only complicate more because everybody follows different rules...i gaurantee at some point i will break some of your rules and you will break some of mine, the best we can ask for is to follow through and see if something real and wonderful blossoms...communication is the key...tell me if something annoys you, i'll do the same

dinner would be nice...the rest depends on the person i guess...i like playing pool and going bowling...somewhere you can talk would be nice...also where you dont necessarily have to scream to be heard is great...both parties should feel comfortable and if they dont then not enough discussion is taking place...discussion of what to do and where to go should be the top priority, things can go wrong but if you keep the lines of communication open those hurdles are easily overcome