Thanks for stopping by! I fully believe in creating amazing opportunities full of positive vibe and fun. Either fate or a quick email from me got you to this page out of the millions out there so just think how many random things had to happen just for you to end up reading this page. That's a pretty good start to some good times, and I am a full believer in fate.

Have you ever read a person's profile on here only to find yourself reading it from beginning to end because you already feel that new directions and opportunities are beginning to build from inside of you? That you are about to unfold a large part of your life wide open? That the person's writing makes you realize that person, right in front of you could be the one that brings you exactly what matches what you've been looking for? I fall in love for those moments. But I like making my moments real and in front of me, not virtual.

I like when another person's profile speaks directly to me and tells me what I'm going to experience. I love those moments of suspended time where I can let another person engulf me into their life just by their words and attract me from deep within me.

Overall I'm an explorer of the fun you can discover wherever you are. I live for those "Oh My GOD" moments regarding a great restaurant or sensory experience. I love Carolina Hurricanes games and share season tickets. I'm a passionate fan. (I have to admit I like watching a person pound and pound and pound on a person, then see that person, with style and finesse, skate through the cold wind and put it in the goal).

I love playing street hockey to get out my alpha male tendencies and was the goalie for the 2005 Raleigh Street Hockey League Champions, Blue Steel. Don't mess with my teammates or you get hacked in the ankles.

I appreciate and love every type and genre of live music. Currently new rock and jazz stir my inner fimbriae to fibrillate. You'll usually see me on Glenwood South in Raleigh taking in a new band. My current favorites are Cool Kid Collective and Urban Sophisticates. Dance music of every type makes me move my bod.

You are a cool, fun, positive-minded woman who is comfortable with a social man with many friends that you will meet in the community. If you are a woman with confidence or firm knowledge of who you are, you are what I seek and will bring you inside a world you haven't experienced before. Trust me, most of my past dates have said that.

If you enjoy dancing -- BIG plus. You get bonus points. You don't need to be good. I want someone who enjoys letting their body be free and expressive without self-consciousness.

I already have the greatest set of friends around, but there's nothing wrong with adding more to the inner circle. You can join the crew if you like people in search of the best times with the best people in relaxed camaraderie who feel as if they've been connected together and feel safe enough in each others' presence to speak their minds and be themselves.

As for me, I'm no "white horse" prince charming and I'm not a "dark horse" bad boy. I'm a mixture of both. Maybe a brown horse with a white streak on his head and a black tail. I've been told by past girlfriends that I have this rapid, natural way of making them feel at ease, but when my boundaries are crossed I make it known immediately.

Friends and ladies have described me as a "Cool intellectual" but that's only the quick soundbite. The most important thing in my life is to love and protect my kids. But equally important is finding a woman who is willing to live the poetry of life and be taken by a man.

I'm a dog person and have two beautiful dogs as part of my family.

Now with that out of the way, I won't make any excuses for what attracts me to you. But I need to get to know you a bit before I truly let you into my world, so short profiles will be followed by questions about you stemming from my natural curiosity about the world and people.

My children and business have a strong role in my life, but I have no problems balancing my life. A woman who feels that relationships are important in that balance would be amazing.

You made it this far? Good. Maybe you'll find out why Cosmo UK Dec 2009 page 112 featured my hand massages in an article. And I MAY give you one too.

I like good conversation at first. Flea market. Farmer's market. Then doing something with the stuff we buy. Or we could travel to get the best pie in NC. Travel to the best bakery in NC. Search out reality tv stars to become part of their reality. Go to Lazy 5 ranch near Charlotte to feed giraffes and zebras out of a bucket. My first "Meetups" have been anything from dairy queen for ice cream to a shiatsu massage. Depends on the woman. You want me to cook? I'll make you my specialty. Ask if you want to know.