I'm not looking for perfection as perceived by everyone else, only in my eyes. Going out or staying in, I want to be able to enjoy who I'm with and be proud of them. Honor, honesty, respect, support, confidence and open mindedness are some qualities that would make a man attractive to me. I'm looking for someone who cares for themselves and others. Someone who is their own EXTREME fan club need not respond!!! I have an 18 year old son whom I am very proud of, he will be going in the Army soon. In addition I have a 16 year old daughter who is an amazing human being!!! I am very close to my kids and my family.........thank God!!! I am originally from Novi (my family still lives down in this area), lived in Grand Rapids, GA, TX, Germany, NC, FL, etc....I am used to relocating so that is an option. I loved experiencing new things.....each move was an adventure but really hated leaving friends. I have some great friends with which we have worked at staying in touch...so we are very close-I just don't see them enough!! I love to have fun.....ask my kids!!

If you are here to just hook up for sex, aren't willing to be yourself, can not be open and honest with me, or haven't gotten over a past relationship.....please move on. I am me, I like myself......please be the same way. I am not saying who you are on the outside, but love yourself on the inside!!! I am looking for someone who people can see that in!!!

I would just like us to feel comfortable and get to know more about each other. I love being surprised on a first date doing something that is important to who I am with, something to show me a little bit of who you are.....no matter what it is, even if it is free!! (as long as we have time to talk)

Don't be shy, send me a note if you are interrested......I guess I am old fashioned that way! I promise to respond!! (OK I will make every attempt to respond-no promises, better??)