I've been living in San Diego for the last year and a half, just moved back to NY. The world is different here, not that I thought it would be the same, I just want to see what's out here, to find a woman to connect with. I want to see what I like and why someone likes me, like I'm two again, except with an adult, down to earth and mature twist. I want to settle down but I don't want to settle. I want to please but I want someone to also please me. Physical looks may be important but not as important as that deep connection which makes the world disappear and then there is but two. I hope it's time to take the thirty something back to the sixteen and then back again with maturity. -matt-