Have you prayed today?

I wish this site would let us have multiple choices on what we are looking for.I am looking for many things,be it friendship,chatting,hangout,or long term(with a major preference to the long term).I am willing to try dating,but to be honest,I wish I could never have to go on another "date" ever.Going out is fine.It's the "date" I wish I didnt have to do.

I am a Jeans and t-shirt type guy. I can dress when the occasion calls for it,but I mostly wear jeans and t-shirts.

I am a white male who has never dated within my own race. (There have been some I could have dated- but I,or they,were seeing someone else at the time.No,I wont cheat.) But,as with any other race,if the right person crosses my path , yes.

I am not looking for a "barbie doll"(and I totally dislike "Glamour Shots" photograghs and too much make-up). I wont refuse you if you are beautiful, but the personality,brains,and sense of humor need be there! If you like to get crazy,that's even better!
Please-NO airheads-I like a smart lady, and even love glasses!--One other thing.If you think cleavage and/or racy pics will win points with me-shop elsewhere.

Because most people "judge the book by the cover", many times my music choices,and social choices surprise them.
Most places I go,including church,, I look like "a grain of rice in a bowl of caviar".I am NOT a wannabe, I just go where I am most comfortable, as do most people.

I am not a sports nut,and rarely even watch a game on TV.I prefer live games when I do wish to see one. My most active sports are rollerskating(a lot),followed by hiking/walking/jogging,and then fishing,hunting,and canoeing.I have a preference towards individual pursuits but am a team player when need be.

If you believe your children are a hindrance to finding a good man, then you are chasing the wrong men. I love children,and take mine many places. Unfortunately,as they get older,they play with me less,and with others more!lol (That is normal isn't it?) Do I want more? YES! Will it happen? That's up to God.

I rarely drink, and don't mind if you do, as long as it isn't to the extreme.(I can't stand a drunk!) I do attend church frequently,but I am Not a "holy-roller".I can be 420 friendly,but that will be decided on how we interact.

There are many options I could take, but I will try here for now.Please-I am open to all races,but read the profile before contacting me!I don't want anyone on either side hurt. thanks( PLEASE-no players)..........

I do prefer skin darker than my own,but even that is not mandatory. But,we are still going to have to click - I aint desperate,just as I am not perfect.
I will look at many, young and old, but it will be up to the Lord to connect me with the one he has chosen for me. I will trust in him.

I would prefer a quiet cup of coffee and maybe a long walk where we could chat and feel each other out,to see if we click.I am also open to dinner and/or a movie,Or even the theater(Raleigh Little Theater possibly?Koka Booth Theatre?)but that makes it a bit harder to chat.If you prefer something else,I am open to suggestions. I will give you a hint- I go rollerskating ,a lot......That last pic is me with Brandi....No,it wasnt a date.Just rollerskating.And we didnt interact a whole lot.But I saw how she is with children. That interaction makes her more beautiful than many are capable of.

If you have read this far,I thank you.Though we may not click nor even ever meet,I will pray that you find that which you need and seek!

May HIS Grace and Peace be within you.