I'm looking to meet someone that gets me and has the ability to connect with one another. I think you can tell quickly if there is a connection, whether it comes through a spark of attraction or sharing common beliefs, interests and values. I just turned 39, but few people think I am older than early 30s based on dress and my spirit.

I enjoy many things- beach, boating and anything outdoors. I enjoy nice restaurants, good wine and fun conversation. Im looking for someone who likes to receive attention and doesnt feel guilty about it, but also has lots of passion and affection to share in return. My friends would describe me as laid back and many have said I have a calming demeanor. I am not looking to waste anyones time or troll for sex or a quickie.

As you can see, I do have two beautiful boys. They are my joy, my sanity, my rock. We do many things together, I see them often, and I am committed to them for life. Anything less than that would be a deal breaker. I am open to having more children. I have a good job which I enjoy and Im attracted to good conversation, fun, intelligent, down to earth women who have their own special sexiness and who can handle a conversation and of course, being with a guy who has other responsibilities, such as that which comes along with having 2 young boys and a good job. My boys provide me a good workout and can be exhausting at times, but a smile is always assured and I even learn something from time to time. Feel free to ask me any questions and Ill answer them openly.

I believe Im a good catch for the right person and have lots of love and passion to share for someone ready to move slowly toward that kind of relationship. I also know how to respect someone and treat them they way I would want in return.

I would do something light and casual... probably dinner. I would defiitely have a glass of wine and talk and laugh. Starbucks is ok but kind of routine and predictable.