I'm not sure really what I'm looking for right now. I can let you know when I find it, I think. I'm very independent and crave time alone, but I enjoy spending quality time with a great guy as well. Don't let the fact that I'm a NASCAR fan fool you, I'm hardly a redneck chick! It would be great to find someone to watch races with. I believe in taking good care of my man, but I also expect the same in return. I would love to find someone with as high a sex drive as I have, but having HSV-2 it's been difficult. It'd be great to find someone dealing with the same issue, but anyone with knowledge and respect for it is just as good. I'm probably somewhere in between 'few extra pounds' and 'bbw', you'd have to decide for yourself what category I fall into, but I am definitely a bigger girl - but not tall, lol. I dress well and take care of my appearance, I love clothes and fashion and I enjoy looking nice. I like quieter, mellow guys, slightly nerdy is ok, but with a sense of humor and a strong sense of kindness and generosity. Smart guys turn me on, but not smartasses. A bonus if you're an Oklahoma State fan! Political conservatives need not apply. I love travelling and road trips, so sneaking off for a weekend at the lake, or a long weekend in Vegas is my kind of thing. I am not a big outdoors person, not into fishing or camping or things like that. I hate drama, and I need to be able to trust that you are who you say you are, and that you're a man of honor and integrity.

I should give you fair warning, however...right now I'm extremely jaded towards the whole world of dating and relationships. Very gunshy about getting emotionally involved with anyone. I'd like to think that the right guy would change that, but right now I don't know. That doesn't mean I don't want to meet new guys, go out, have some fun, have a good meal, good conversation, though. And, uh... I really don't want to go without sex, so... yeah.

I love good food, so we could start at a really great restaurant. Doesn't have to be expensive at all, great food comes in all forms. Walking around a gallery, maybe seeing a stage show or a great comedian next.