About Me: I'm kind hearted..soft spoken but also strong minded & strong willed..Full of energy and excitement. Daredevil at times, but NEVER forget to use my brains. Confident, secure and persistent, yet reasonable and understanding. Up to anything fun, productive, challenging and exciting within established limits. Down to earth, awesome sense of humor, sarcastic at times, brutally honest, loyal, Italian. I would like to find someone who challenges me mentally; who wants to be with someone for who they are; someone with an open mind that has no predetermined ideas of how people or things must be in today's society. I'm unique in many ways and I'm looking for that out of ordinary kind of guy.

Common Sense: Do you have it?

Best Feature: My Intellect

Chemistry: I need traits that will keep me attracted long after the looks and passion fade. I also am a big believer in allowing each other space and the freedom to live their lives without being insecure or jealous when it comes to the other. I find that men respect the relationship more when a woman is secure, when a woman can approach issues of the heart with tact, understanding, maturity and sense of balance. I "think before I speak" leaving out the emotional intensity or what men refer to as "drama" or "hysteria". I've learned over the years there are 6 categories us women fall into and the man's mind is made up within the first two dates". There are some exceptions, but not many and yes, there are the male equivelents of the below..lol.

Category No. 1-friends with benefits;

Category No. 2-casual dating until something better comes along;

Category No. 3-The uggghhh who you wouldn't touch and, in fact, hope never
to be seen with.

Category No. 4-The mommy, very nurturing, wants to be the one, you'll let
her dote and do thing for you; however, would only sleep with her
as a last resort - and with the understanding that you'll soon
have to end all contact as she will become even more intense

Category No. 5-One of the guys (the female best friend) who you'd never
sleep with as then you'd lose your spy in the enemy camp, and
your sounding board to glean the true female perspective...

Category No. 6-LONG TERM.

I've learned if a man doesn't know what he wants, then generally he doesn’t want what he has.

Interests: Salsa, Merengue, Bachata, Cumbia and ballroom dancing (I love to dance); Animals; medicine, science/biology & anatomy.

Integrity and Morals: I like old school; I like integrity; I like people of their word and people who are about respect and family. I'm not about money, I prefer blue collar over white collar, and I'm NOT the high maintenance type.

Drama and Ex-Baggage: We all have it but how we choose to view it is a different story. I have never been married and I don't have kids. I dislike drama and know what I want.

I have NO expectations. I consider the first time meeting someone to be just that, a meet...not a date. I'm all about casual; no pressure and nice relaxed/low key atmosphere.