One of my friends gave me advice on how I can update and change my profile. This is probably the most frustrating thing that I you have to do. She told me, "...your profile is good..BUT...you sound too professional!!"

Too professional ??? What the hell does that mean?? Then I looked, really looked at my profile as it was before:

"I am a simple guy that enjoys treating a woman with respect, and I expect the same in return. The need for conversation is a must but also being comfortable in your own silence is not bad either. We don't always have to entertain each other. I love spending time with good friends and family. I am very big on the relationships and family dynamics in someone I am looking for. I can be serious, but love to be a joker. I love to try new things at least once. I am an intelligent, well mannered gentleman that does not believe chivalry is dead. Shy and reserved at first, but once we get to know each other, you'll see a totally different level. If this is what you are interested in, don't be shy, drop me a line."

I sound so lame!! Who is that?? Great effort and all, but I wouldn't have contacted myself either. Everything sounds good, like I am probably a nice guy, but where is the sense of humour? Where is the charming personality? So what do I put here???

I am a single father, (Any single Dad complexes, need not apply), just looking for someone for me. I'll handle my family, you can handle me. Just being honest. I am extremely caring and have a good head on my shoulders. I have a great job that I love and it gives me perspective on my life everyday.

THIS IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. Just to be clear, to the person that messaged me earlier......NO I DO NOT LIKE "BIG BOOTY GYAL". I don't even know if that was an attempt at conversation, so if it was, please see above. Thanks but no thanks!!

I prefer WOMEN, that will message me more than one line. And for sure, more than THAT line alone. Women that leave a piece of themselves long after they are gone, and leave you longing for more. A woman that will make all of the other women disappear even though hundreds are in the same room. I want a woman that gives a sense of direction in her life, without having to say a word. Someone, that I can trust, respect, admire and appreciate...is that too much to ask for??

Again, if you are interested, then contact me. It doesn't mean we will date...nor does it mean we will even talk, but just that you have contacted someone you find attractive in some way and that's the first step in making a connection.

Happy Fishing and thanks for stopping by!!

We will see!! It all depends on our connection!!