I think I will take the less is more approach. People tend to read into things too much and most of the time it really doesn't matter. What matters is if the attraction is there, if you are willing to be open-minded and non-judgemental and accept people for who they are --- and not have barriers from past relationships- I really don't feel like breaking down walls, fears get you nowhere and waste others time and emotions- and you could miss out on great opportunities! That goes for anything in life- not just relationships. I want a man who knows what they want, go for it, and not afraid of anything! I am a strong person, and would prefer the same ---- communication is key . You don't need to have all the same interests because I believe we all need our space anyway. Let's just see what happens and have fun........so much for less is more!